Struggles of Grad Life

Common challenges in Grad Life in the USA and how to overcome them.

Faria Tabassum
3 min readAug 6, 2022
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๐Ÿ. ๐‡๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ฌ๐ข๐œ๐ค๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ: You will likely move to another country or city for higher studies. If such is the case, you will feel homesick, especially at the start. Therefore, try to get connected to people at the destination before your arrival. These people could be your seniors, classmates, labmates, etc. They will help you to find your legs soon.

๐Ÿ. ๐”๐ง๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐œ๐ก ๐ ๐š๐ฉ: Many students struggle to find a concrete research gap. Donโ€™t look for a perfect gap. Seek input from your supervisors to scope your topic. Then, study the recent survey papers to scope your case further down. Start from here, and you will figure out the rest on the way.

๐Ÿ‘. ๐…๐ข๐ง๐š๐ง๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ ๐ก๐š๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ: Scholarships are not always too generous. Sometimes, they are even partial. Sometimes you have unexpected expenses for medical or repeat a course. So, you may face some financial hardships. To overcome this, you can do the following โ€” teaching, marking, assisting your supervisor in an external project, working more hours in Summer, doing odd work like working at university dining, and so on. Try saving and being thrifty from the beginning, but not too thrifty makes you depressed.

๐Ÿ’. ๐๐š๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฃ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ: You will most likely face paper rejections during your Ph.D. Donโ€™t get disheartened. Every Ph.D. student faces it. Carefully analyze reviewersโ€™ comments, improve, and submit again. Submit more. Please donโ€™t sit on papers to make them perfect.

๐Ÿ“. ๐–๐จ๐ซ๐ค-๐ฅ๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐›๐š๐ฅ๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž: Many students struggle to balance work and personal life. Also, doing regular chores like cleaning, cooking, laundry, etc. Of course, do study hard. However, donโ€™t kill yourself โ€” be kind to yourself. Establish a good balance.

๐Ÿ”. ๐‹๐š๐œ๐ค ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ซ๐ข๐œ๐ก ๐๐š๐ญ๐š: You can do good research when you have access to rich data. You may struggle to find the correct data. When you pick a Ph.D. project/topic, you have a solid plan and resources to get the required data. You donโ€™t want to change your case after a year due to a lack of data.

๐Ÿ•. ๐‹๐š๐œ๐ค ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง: At multiple stages during grad life, you will lose motivation due to not getting the expected results, paper rejection, criticism, and so on. Everyone comes across it. This is the time when your true strength will be tested. So stay strong and stay focussed. Keep yourself away from negative-minded people.

๐Ÿ–. ๐’๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฌ๐จ๐ซ-๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฌ๐ž๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ: This is the most crucial relationship during your grad life. Keep it healthy, professional, and respectful. Seek concrete feedback and be clear in your communications.

๐Ÿ—. ๐‘๐ฎ๐ง๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ข๐ฆ๐ž: Grad Funding is for a specific time such as four years. You may struggle to finish on time. To avoid it, plan from the start. Publish as soon as possible. Keep at least four months for your thesis writing.

๐Ÿ๐ŸŽ. ๐’๐ฅ๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐œ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฏ๐ž: When you start your grad life, you will have to learn new skills such as paper reading & writing, data analysis, and so on. Donโ€™t worry if you are slow. Just give it your 100%. Donโ€™t shy away from running the extra mile.

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